Dating only one person at a time
You are ready for your first date with a beautiful Thai girl. She might do it because she is scared to meet you alone, but she might also do it because she, her friends and her family hope to get an all-inclusive menu. Taking a foreigner to the mall is the most common first date move of the semi pros.
What appears to be a normal date is actually window shopping at its finest.
After twenty minutes you ask her what she wants to do and she says “go to the mall”. As soon as you are in the mall she takes your hand, leads you in one shop after another and looks at you like a cute little puppy whenever she sees something she likes. I actually met a really, really dumb Farang who opens his wallet whenever a girl tells him about her sick “INSERT ANY HUMAN OR ANIMAL”.
You simply tell her upfront that you want her to pay for her stuff because you only want to spend time with girls who are into you. If she makes a scene, you know what you are dealing with.While it is okay to hold hands when you are in a relationship with her, too much physical contact in public will make her extremely uncomfortable.You wouldn’t be the first guy who gets a rejection because he was too pushy.The uncomfortable truth is that a lot of professional models and even some actresses in Thailand are ladyboys. In case you are one of the guys who claim that “Not walking around like a creepy sex tourist helps a lot, but the ultimate weapon to attract a beautiful girl in Bangkok is to speak a few basic words in Thai.Nope, you don’t have to sign up for a language course, even though I highly recommend Thaipod 101.
The first time I traveled to Thailand felt exciting and new, but the moment I stepped out of the airplane I have lost track of how many times I traveled to this country, how many beautiful women I met and how many unforgettable moments I experienced.