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To love and have sex with men means to love and have sex with the masculine.
To be attracted to the feminine is a straight man’s preference.
These guys may not be seeking masculinity, but instead avoiding femininity, which—as one 27-year-old man pointed out—reveals an insecurity with the femme.
I’ll modify my behavior, like consciously lowering my voice, because I assume that’s what’s sexy.” — Colin, 27The guy who told me about his “hypermasculine upbringing” described himself as a “man’s man.” He also asserted that he “loves a real man!
,” but stopped responding to me when I asked him what a fake man looks like.
I’ve seen Scruff guys explain the lack of preference on their profile with an, “I’m open to everything! ”Most gay men are self-aware of their gendered behavior, and have a pretty good idea of how masculine or feminine they consider themselves to be. It was difficult enough coming to terms with the fact that I’m gay to begin with, and I got over the fact that I’ve aged out of my prime twink years—no longer fitting neatly into any of the checkable categories on Grindr or Scruff.
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It seems, though, that “masc4masc” has recently been considered more tongue-in-cheek by some of the userbase. Scruff has taken steps to create a more inclusive environment for all types of gay men to find partners with whom they click.“Since Scruff added more femme-forward profile options [such as transgender, queer, and drag], I’ve had much fewer ‘masc only’ dudes contacting me.